What do I have to say that’s worth taking anyone’s valuable time? Probably nothing worth valuable time, but something worth my time. If some one else finds what I have to say to be helpful or interesting, then it’s just a bonus. I’ll give a little synopsis of my current life. I am 49 and just filed for divorce from my husband of 23 years in part because he decided to join a swingers’ group. I have two children, one of whom is on the dean’s list at college every quarter and one of whom is a homeless heroin addict. We had a third child, but he contracted E Coli meningitis when he was three weeks old and was multiply handicapped and medically fragile. He died seven and a half years ago when he was almost twelve. My husband and I have legal custody of our granddaughter, and she will be living with me when we move following the divorce.